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Dirty talk

Filthy words from foreplay to orgasm—you only get to finish once you've talked each other properly hot.

Illustration: Dirty talk couple challenge
I.Task

Task

How to approach this challenge—at your pace, with clear boundaries.

The entire session (foreplay + sex) must be accompanied by intense dirty talk. You may only come once you've really turned each other on with filthy words, commands, and descriptions.

II.Preparation

Preparation

  • Talk briefly beforehand about how explicit and hard you want to go (soft / medium / hard).
  • Agree on a safeword in case it gets too much.
  • Get comfortable in bed, on the couch, or wherever you like.
  • Optional: Dim the lights and play quiet erotic music in the background.
  • Drink some water—dirty talk can be hard on your voice 😉
III.Techniques & rules

Techniques & rules

  • Descriptions: Say exactly what you're feeling or what you want to do to each other.
  • Commands: Give each other clear instructions (“Fuck me harder”, “Lick me just like that”, “Show me how turned on you are”).
  • Praise & degradation: Mix compliments with filthy lines (“Your cock feels so good inside me” / “You're such a hot slut”).
  • Ask questions: “Should I fuck you deeper?”, “Do you want me to come inside you?”
  • Share fantasies: Describe what you're imagining—or something you've done together before.
IV.Extra level for more fun

Extra level for more fun

  • No moaning challenge: Only dirty talk allowed—moaning is forbidden.
  • Whisper only: Everything whispered in each other's ear—extremely intimate.
  • Public tease: Send each other filthy messages or voice notes all day.
  • Roleplay dirty talk: Combine with role play (teacher/student, boss/secretary, strangers, etc.).
  • Recording: Record the session (just for you) and listen back together later.

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