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Window sex

The city is right there—and someone might be watching.

Illustration: Window sex couple challenge
I.Task

Task

How to approach this challenge—at your pace, with clear boundaries.

Tonight you have sex at the window, at home or in a hotel, with the curtain open and the light on, so the city stays in view.

II.The place — pick one

The place — pick one

  • At home: You stand at your own window, the curtain opens, and the light stays warm enough that you can see the street.
  • Hotel: You take a room with a view, leave the curtain open, and stand so the city is behind you.
III.Preparation

Preparation

  • Find a window you can stand in front of, and clear the sill so nothing is in the way.
  • Wear something that opens and closes while you are standing, in case you do pull the curtain shut.
  • Leave the light on, because without it you cannot see the city and the rush fades.
  • Agree beforehand how far the curtain opens and what happens when someone is clearly looking.
  • Keep the bed or a blanket within reach, in case your legs get tired and you want to turn away from the glass.
IV.How it goes

How it goes

  • Stand at the window and look outside first, before any clothes come off.
  • Start with kissing and hands under clothes, and keep your eyes on the city.
  • Stay standing, in standing from behind or the dancer, and missionary comes only once you turn toward the bed.
  • Undress only as far as feels right with the curtain open.
  • Keep the pace slow, and nobody has to come.
  • Afterward you close the curtain or leave it open, depending on how the evening still feels.
V.Rules

Rules

  • If one of you feels unsure, you stop. That does not ruin the night.
  • If someone is clearly watching and it stops feeling good, close the curtain before you continue.
  • Full sex, oral, or only hands all count, as long as the window feels right and you both still want it.
  • The light stays on because you want to see the city, not as a spotlight you did not agree on.
VI.Extra level for more fun

Extra level for more fun

  • One of you stays almost dressed while you undress the other piece by piece, so the contrast keeps the rush.
  • Stand so you can see yourselves in the glass, and watch that instead of the street.
  • You stay quiet, because the window carries sound farther than it feels in the room.
  • Afterward you lie down and leave the curtain open a while longer.
  • If the first evening went well, you take a higher room next time and start at the window again.

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