Secret fantasy
The fantasy you've kept to yourself—until tonight.
I.Task
Task
How to approach this challenge—at your pace, with clear boundaries.
Tonight each of you writes down a sexual fantasy you have never said out loud. You read them to each other, then decide how far to take it.
II.Preparation
Preparation
- Put out paper and a pen. Writing it by hand makes the fantasy more real than a quick chat.
- Find a quiet room and put your phones away, so nothing cuts the reading short.
- Agree first that listening does not mean you have to act it out.
- Give it time, so neither of you has to race through the page.
III.How it goes
How it goes
- Each of you writes one real fantasy the other has never heard.
- Read it slowly, and let the other person listen without jumping in.
- One question afterward is enough. This is not an interview.
- You decide together how far tonight goes: talk it through, try part of it, or act the whole fantasy out.
- Then say what it meant to hear it, and stay lying together.
IV.Rules
Rules
- Do not laugh it off, and do not tell anyone else.
- Hearing it is not a promise, and a no to any part of it means stop.
- Either of you can stop in the middle, with no explanation needed.
V.Extra level for more fun
Extra level for more fun
- Before you decide, the listener says the fantasy back in new words.
- Act out only one fantasy tonight, and leave the other for later.
- Keep the notes to yourselves, then tear them up or delete them.
- If the bigger fantasy still feels like too much, start with the smaller one.
- Save the second fantasy for another night, instead of trying to fit both into this one.
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