Anal only

Tonight the focus is anal—however you define that together.

I.Task

Task

How to approach this challenge—at your pace, with clear boundaries.

Anal only tonight. No vaginal penetration; the focus stays on anal play, however you both define that. Take turns giving and receiving, or concentrate on one partner for the evening.

II.Ideas

Ideas

Giver and receiver—one is active all evening, the other receives
Taking turns—switch after each round
Anal plus toys—fingers, plug, dildo, vibrator, prostate massager
Anal teasing—external only, licking, massage, slow entry
Double anal play—both receive anal stimulation (e.g. with toys)

III.Rules

Rules

Use plenty of lube—and reapply often
Start slow: foreplay, relaxation, external stimulation first
Agree on a safeword and respect it
No pressure for full penetration—even the tip or a massage counts
Allow 60–90 minutes
Aftercare afterward—cuddling, stroking, a light massage

IV.Tips for the evening

Tips for the evening

Shower together first; optional anal foreplay in the shower
Have extra lube, wipes, toys, and towels ready
Positions to try: spooning, doggy, missionary with legs raised, reverse cowgirl
Set the mood with music, candles, and clear communication ("More… slower… deeper…")
Start with fingers or a small plug before larger toys or full penetration