Anal only

Anal only tonight. No vaginal penetration; the focus stays on anal play, however you both define that. Take turns giving and receiving, or concentrate on one partner for the evening.

Ideas:

• Giver and receiver—one is active all evening, the other receives

• Taking turns—switch after each round

• Anal plus toys—fingers, plug, dildo, vibrator, prostate massager

• Anal teasing—external only, licking, massage, slow entry

• Double anal play—both receive anal stimulation (e.g. with toys)

Rules:

• Use plenty of lube—and reapply often

• Start slow: foreplay, relaxation, external stimulation first

• Agree on a safeword and respect it

• No pressure for full penetration—even the tip or a massage counts

• Allow 60–90 minutes

• Aftercare afterward—cuddling, stroking, a light massage

Tips:

• Shower together first; optional anal foreplay in the shower

• Have extra lube, wipes, toys, and towels ready

• Positions to try: spooning, doggy, missionary with legs raised, reverse cowgirl

• Set the mood with music, candles, and clear communication ("More… slower… deeper…")

• Start with fingers or a small plug before larger toys or full penetration