Spooning
Side by side from behind—cozy, low effort, easy to keep slow.
Spooning – what makes this position work.
You both lie on your sides, with him tucked in behind her, fitted together like spoons. A lot of skin, almost no effort.
It is the one for morning sex, late nights, and any time you want to stay close without acrobatics. Keep the thrusts small. A pillow between her knees saves both hips, and his hand can rest on her chest, her belly, or her clit.
Get into position.
Four easy steps—take your time between moves and notice what feels right.
- 01
Lie on your sides facing the same direction, hips stacked without twisting your lower backs.
- 02
She slides her top knee slightly forward; a thin pillow between knees often helps.
- 03
He nestles behind her, chest to her back, and you join slowly when you're both ready.
- 04
Keep movements small and steady; big thrusts usually don't work well here.
For more closeness and pleasure.
Small ideas that make a big difference – for her, for him, and for both of you.
For her
- Rock your top hip in small forward-back motions—tiny moves change the angle a lot.
- Put his hand on your chest, belly, or clit with the pressure you want.
- Relax your belly and jaw—you'll feel more.
- Let neck kisses be part of how you tell him what's working.
For him
- Stay close without digging your elbow into the mattress.
- Slow rocking usually beats hard thrusting here.
- Kiss her neck and shoulder, and stay with her.
- Follow her pace and where she wants your hands.
For both of you
- A pillow between knees or under her head saves necks on long sessions.
- A vibrator or a free hand adds intensity if you want it.
- Ask quietly, "How does this feel?"—the angle changes day to day.
- Think of it as cuddling that turns sexual—not a race.
Small ideas, new spark.
Tiny tweaks—try one or stick with the basics.
3 variations · swipe
Variation 1
Vibrating spoon
She holds a small bullet or finger vibrator on her clitoris while he penetrates her.
Variation 2
Spoon with plug
She wears a butt plug while he penetrates her vaginally.
Variation 3
Anal spoon
Both lie on their sides, he nestles closely behind her. She lifts her top leg slightly or rests it over his leg. Perfect for gentle, deep anal sex.
Finish with intention.
Whether you tried a twist or stayed with the basics, close the moment with intention.
Base +10 XP
Safety & Comfort
Notes to keep you comfortable
Safety & Comfort
Notes to keep you comfortableNotes
- A pillow between the knees helps with comfort.
- Communicate about angle and depth.
Avoid when
- If side-lying for long periods causes hip discomfort.
Tips
- Take your time and enjoy the slow pace.
- Use hands for additional stimulation.
If you enjoy this …
Inspiration beyond this position – completely optional.
