Shopping
One of you calls the shots: what gets tried on, what gets bought—and what's worn underneath (or not).
I.Task
Task
How to approach this challenge—at your pace, with clear boundaries.
Tonight you go clothes shopping together, and one of you decides what the other tries on, buys, and wears underneath, or not at all.
II.The shopping — pick one
The shopping — pick one
- In a shop: You try things on, the other waits by the fitting room and says what stays and what goes back.
- On the sofa: You browse online, the other fills the basket, and the anticipation is already the foreplay.
III.Preparation
Preparation
- Decide who leads, and pick a word that vetoes a piece of clothing right away.
- Set a budget so the game does not turn into an argument about the price.
- Look for something that can be worn the same evening.
- In a shop you stay polite with the staff, and the game stays between the two of you.
- Agree whether photos in the fitting room are allowed or the phones stay outside.
IV.How it goes
How it goes
- Whoever leads picks three pieces, and the other tries them on without rushing.
- You buy at least one piece the leader chose, so the evening has something to come home in.
- On the way home it stays on or sits under the coat, so the anticipation comes along.
- At home the clothes come off slowly, and you look at each other before anything continues.
- The sex stays close to what you just saw, in cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, or missionary.
- Afterward you say what you liked most while trying things on.
V.Rules
Rules
- A no to a piece of clothing stands, even when the other person is leading.
- You stay inside the shop and the budget, and do not buy something just to test a limit.
- You do not embarrass each other in front of the staff.
- One bought piece and the evening at home are enough.
VI.Extra level for more fun
Extra level for more fun
- Only the one who leads sees the underwear, in the fitting room or only once you are home.
- On the way home there is nothing underneath, and only the two of you know.
- The new piece stays on during sex until you take it off on purpose.
- Next time the other leads, so the same person is not always in charge.
- A second piece waits for another evening, instead of wearing everything tonight.
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