Lotus
Seated face-to-face, wrapped together—slow, close, very intimate.
Lotus – what makes this position work.
He sits cross-legged. She sits on his lap facing him and wraps her legs and arms around him, chest to chest. In tantra this seat is called yab-yum.
You rock more than you thrust. It is slow, and breathing and eye contact matter as much as the sensation. A firm cushion under him saves his legs if they start to go numb.
Get into position.
Four easy steps—take your time between moves and notice what feels right.
- 01
Sit facing each other on a firm bed or floor with backs supported if needed.
- 02
She wraps her legs around his waist; he holds her hips or lower back for balance.
- 03
Align pelvises before he enters; go slowly—this angle is snug.
- 04
Rock together in small motions while you stay chest to chest.
For more closeness and pleasure.
Small ideas that make a big difference – for her, for him, and for both of you.
For her
- Wrap your legs around him and rock or circle slowly—you steer depth and angle.
- Press your chest to his and pull him closer with your arms.
- Hold eye contact when you want emotional closeness, not just sensation.
- Match slow breaths—it sounds simple, but it feels intimate fast.
For him
- Sit tall but relaxed; a cushion under you helps if legs go numb.
- Hold her spine, neck, or hips so she feels anchored.
- Tiny pelvic lifts or shared swaying often beat hard thrusting here.
- Kiss her face, throat, and chest—you're already right there.
For both of you
- A firm pillow under him can tweak height and save knees.
- Build heat slowly—rushing fights this position.
- Pressure shifts, sighs, and smiles often say enough.
- She can extend legs behind him, or you both lean back holding hands.
- Silence, soft music, or low light—only if you both want it.
Small ideas, new spark.
Tiny tweaks—try one or stick with the basics.
2 variations · swipe
Variation 1
Blindfolded Lotus
One or both of you wear a blindfold. Without visual distraction, touches, breath, heartbeat, and small movements become extremely intense.
Variation 2
Oil Lotus
Your bodies are oiled with warm massage oil. The slippery skin makes every stroke and rocking motion especially sensual.
Finish with intention.
Whether you tried a twist or stayed with the basics, close the moment with intention.
Base +26 XP
Safety & Comfort
Notes to keep you comfortable
Safety & Comfort
Notes to keep you comfortableNotes
- A cushion under him often helps hips and knees.
Avoid when
- Hip or knee discomfort in seated position.
Tips
- Rock slowly rather than thrust.
If you enjoy this …
Inspiration beyond this position – completely optional.
