Toy shopping date

Make a proper date of it. Choose a new sex toy together and try it the same day or evening; the shopping is part of the foreplay.

How it flows:

Start the date

Browse online from the sofa, or visit a sex shop together.

Choose together

Look at pictures, descriptions, and reviews. Talk openly: what do you want to try? What makes you both curious?

Buy and build anticipation

Order online or buy in store.

First use

As soon as it arrives—or that same evening if you bought it in person—give it a thorough test run.